Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Why Morning Sex ?


Reality of Morning Sex

morning sex is one of those things that sound good in theory…. 
guy wakes up with an extremely hard erection- laying right there together in bed…. In reality… his penis is hard naturally (not from being sexually aroused)- 
sure he will want to follow his erection into her pussy…. 
but first he will have to urinate- after that his erection will be gone= 
having not been turned on / aroused in the right way… without the dick leading the way- the motivation to take the time for foreplay so she can enjoy it… and then getting him aroused properly afterwards- ITS JUST NOT WHAT IS SEEMS

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Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Sexuality Of A Sex Therapist (poem)


"I’m not promiscuous 
Can’t call me prude 
Enjoying sex
Sensual not lewd 

These are the secrets
To make it feel great
Explore your body
Play - masturbate


Try everything
Know what to do
make it count 
Give him a clue


Never a favor 
It’s not a game
Always for pleasure
Never the same



I can be naughty 
Venture out of the bed
But when I go down
Keep your hands off of my head


Be your orgasm expert
Must always feel right 
Keep in him on track
Lick suck nibble bite


Never be passive
 Ladies cum first 
He must patient
Rushing is worst



vulnerable intimate 
Not being alone
Give yourself over
 scream yell & moan


Man is stronger 
the dominant role 
it doens’t matter 
She’s still in control


Beautiful sexy
No written plan
Feeling feminine 
In the arms of a man"
Tamar Gass (Tamara)



Monday, August 25, 2014

Women Can't Keep Sex Casual

It's Not Casual For Her

Poem By: Tamar Gass

No casual sex for women
The feelings they deny
She only fools herself 
But he's sure to let her try

Just cause he wants you
Doesn’t tell you how he feels
He'll say the right things
Don’t assume they all are real

If he wants to sleep with you
Don’t assume you are 'the one'
You may want commitment
While he’s just having fun

It may seem he’s listening
Without caring what you say
If he goes to sleep with you
Don’t assume that he will stay

Just cause he's sweet 
Don’t assume he has respect
Just cause he fulfills your needs
Doesn’t means he is perfect

Making you feel sexy
Means nothing if your sleezy
Having sex all the time
Only means that you're easy

You can do all he wants
Don’t assume he’s satisfied
Why should he work for it
When you always have complied

Don’t just give it all away
If you want him to adore
Pretending it is casual
Makes you easy to ignore

Just cause he likes it
And shows you some affection
Casual means he's single
Prepare for the rejection

You dont have to learn the hard way
Just remember this for life
If you don’t respect yourself
You’ll never be his wife
Tamar Gass 

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Supporting, advising, coaching, mentoring, mediating, couples, families, individuals...

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Saturday, August 23, 2014

Benefits Of Adult Toys

Discover Yourself With A Vibrator 

Every woman should own at least one vibrator- 


...Your sex life will suffer without it.

Im not saying that a toy can substitute  for a man… a vibrator is the best way to figure out what you need to climax and orgasm… Unlike men, women don't orgasm as easily. Without knowing exactly how to satisfy yourself, your not going to be able to be satisfied by a man. 
The more familiar she is with each stage leading to the climax- the easier she will be able to experience these stages with a partner.
When masturbating, many women reach the climax without continuing through to the orgasm. It is not uncommon that they mistake the climax for the orgasm…
Experiencing how to get the vagina in an aroused state (erect) is crucial to sexual satisfaction.

A sex toy will help you to know where you want to be touched inside and out…
Women cannot expect to lay there are experience pleasure form sex…

 Just as men do, you have to adjust and move your body a little to make sure the stimulation is in the right spot…
 Would a man ever lay back and let you try to have sex with him while he is limp?
 When erect would he just let you do 100%opf the work? 
No- even if you are on top, he is going to make sure that the stimulation and speed is to  his liking… 



Women must do the same…  A toy can help you figure this out


Friday, August 15, 2014

For Erection Affection (poem)

Erection Affection 


Your penis doesn't lead the way
Im not under its control
I dont think of it every day
Its not the leading role

I know it want my attention
the moment it gets hard
no need to remind or mention
pressure puts me on guard

it may take over your brain
but it cant take over mine
You have to keep it tame
Wait for the right time

Dick alone is no turn on
Arousing me takes more
I wont hurry before its gone
that race I wont endure

I've received your invitation
Persisting brings rejection
Don't let me see expectation
to get affection for your erection

- Tamar Gass



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