The more sex the better

Many Lovers Vs. Few Lovers

To be a good lover and partner in a relationship, it is good  to have multiple sexual partners throughout your life. I would be more turned off by a man with little sexual partners, compared to a man who had sex with many different women.

Personal Sexual History

From the time i lost my virginity at 16, I have had about 6 boyfriends in which the sexual relationship lasted between 1-6 years.

During these relationships I had sex quite often. To be more specific, during the first months of the relationships i think its safe to say we would have sex at least once every day that we saw each other (approximately 4-5 days a week)… just as most other relationships, as the 'honeymoon' phase wore off… sex occurred a little less often.

Between these long-term relationships I dated different guys until I dated the one who became the next boyfriend. 

I was not into sex on the first date…
If the next few dates went well we would be having sex with each other which contributed to determining the connection and attraction needed to be worthy of being my boyfriend.
Although going on dates allows you to still be single, it was common for me to stop dating others when dating one guy became sexual.

Not Into Giving BJs

Don't Cum In My Mouth 

Take it out before she has to spit or swallow

in my personal experience and professional experience with clients,

when a woman refuses to let her man cum in her mouth, 

its because she doesnt like it (obviously)…. 

when a woman asks a man to inform her before he cums from a BJ- and she insits he take it out of her mouth and cum on her breasts (or anywhere else but in her mouth)... the issue is that she is not really wanting to give the BJ- 

The main reason for her not being into doing it is she is NOT sexually aroused or pleasured as she should be. 


this is why women must always cum first. 
Unlike a man- a women can cum multiple times - 
it is best for the pleasure of the man and the woman when she cums first before continuing his pleasure or sex

its not necessary to make her cum first every time, but at least if she knows you are able to make her cum (without your disk)… she will want you more...

Casual Sex Poem

It's Not Casual For Her

No casual sex for women

The feelings they deny

She only fools herself

But he's sure to let her try

Just cause he wants you

Doesn’t tell you how he feels

He'll say the right things

Don’t assume they all are real

If he wants to sleep with you

Don’t assume you are 'the one'

You may want commitment

While he’s just having fun

It may seem he’s listening

Without caring what you say

If he goes to sleep with you

Don’t assume that he will stay

Just cause he's sweet 

Don’t assume he has respect

Just cause he fulfills your needs

Doesn’t means he is perfect

Making you feel sexy

Means nothing if your sleezy

Having sex all the time

Only means that you're easy

You can do all he wants

Don’t assume he’s satisfied

Why should he work for it

When you always have complied

Don’t just give it all away

If you want him to adore

Pretending it is casual

Makes you easy to ignore

Just cause he likes it

And shows you some affection

Casual means he's  single

Prepare for the rejection

You dont have to learn the hard way

Just remember this for life

If you don’t respect yourself

You’ll never be his wife

Tamar Gass

Rejected by A Sex Therapist

Dating A Sex Therapist

Just cause I'm a sex therapist doesn't make me easier. 
Just cause i love sex doesn't mean I want it from every random guy who wants me. 
Just cause i only have good sex doesn't mean it would be good with every guy
.... All this means that I'm only sexual with the right men for the right reasons who knows how to turn me on and equally satisfy me. 

As an expert, i dont have to try it to know if he is the right guy
... The wrong guys cannot turn on a sex therapist at all. 

Sex is Best With A Virgin or Non-Virgin

When in a relationship, I believe in guiding and teaching your partner, as well as learning from them… However, there must be some underlying sexual experience to start with.
With a virgin, how could an experienced woman feel submissive or vulnerable… there is no awkward excitement or exchange of growth… all the excitement and growth and pleasure is 1 sided… 
i am not going to have bad sex, or even mediocre sex…
I am not turned on by a boy that cannot handle me. I am not going to compromise my sexual pleasure to be someone's teacher…
therefore- I am happy to do without it… Im just not attracted to virgins. 
People generally gain sex experience through their 20's… with partners at/near their level. Good experience comes from trial and error with multiple relationships…

Good Sex Rhyme

My Mr. Right (Rhyming Poem)

Rhyming Mr. Right

""The perfect guy is hard to find:

Funny, smart, gracious, kind…

makes me challenged & inspired…

…Feeling sexy & desired

Hard but gentle at the core

His imperfections I adore

Treats me with love & respect

Feels the need to protect

Excellent communication

Patient with my frustration 

Always will have my back

keeps each other on track

Open-minded, assertive, wise

Wipes the tears from my eyes

Will never sleep while in a fight

Doesn’t have to be right

Our arguments make us grow

Adjustable, goes with the flow

Appreciates the things I do

loyal, supportive, real & true

back and forth stimulation

General female consideration

Intense passion & chemistry

brings comfort & serenity

Uncontrollable attraction

sexual tension & satisfaction

Attraction that can’t be denied

Feeling loved & satisfied """

-By: Tamar Gass