How To Handcuff Him

Spicing Up Your Sex Life With Handcuffs

always entertain eachothers sexual desires to maintain an intimate connection. sexual intimacy and excitement come from feeling vulnerable and exposed with eachother.... (like the nerves from the beginning, or a one night stand, or new toy, etc)...

with men its not as easy to get them in a vulnerable position (especially in longer relationships)
as a sex therapist, focussed on intimacy...
 i help many couples (online and in person) with enhancing intimate connection and satisfaction...
in my experience... the main reason men cheat is when they are looking for that excitement (vulnerable sexual feeling)
when tying up your partner...
- know what your dioing... the idea is to make them 'victim to the pleasure'....
-its all about the tease.... go slow... use yout breath.. lips.. tongue... hands
    for example... if you take his penis in your mouth... don't just close your lips around it right away,,,, let him feel your breath on it...
think of it like- how to make him want it to much to handle it
-don't try to make him cum while he is tied up...
try to make him want to break out of the restraints to have his way with you...
use soft light touch... even when you kiss him.... don't just connect lips right away... tease him by getting close... and pulling back
make him feel a little nervous....
if your comfortable with it.... lick under his testicles....

tell him to watch you while you work your way between his legs...
but men are very visual... make him watch you as you get closer

Post by Relationship Insights and Advise.